I met Mike ,my husband , on an evening out with some friends back in 1988, in Gosport Hampshire. At the time I lived in Hythe and Mike proposed to me 17days later by going down on one knee in the middle of the road. He said he would not get up until I agreed to marry him. We where engaged for 18 months and married in August 1990.20 years on we have two girls, Melissa (aged 12) and Kimberley (aged 9). Kimberley is a right handful and has several problems where she is behind for her age. This is mainly due to being ill a lot as a baby with Athma. Its only the last two years that they have got her medication right.As well as being a wife and mother I, like many others have to work full time.